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As a dark skin fellow, what will prompt you to change your skin colour all in the name of the desire to be fair? It means God made a mistake in creating different kind of skin colours then. Many people invest their hard-earned money in various bleaching cream just to look like the foreign people. For guys that bleach, they feel it is the best way to please a lady and for the ladies, they believe they will best fit into any environment they find themselves and look radiant in the eyes of many. Being a dark skin fellow is not a mistake as there are many benefits attached to this particular skin colour. For example, a dark skin fellow can move freely when he/she sustains an injury because the part will be dark but a fair skin would rather be red and the parts will be obvious. Well, for Nigerian beautician and bleaching expert, Tonye Pela Okiemute, bleaching is nothing to him as he specializes in skin whitening and sales of bleaching products which is not a big deal. In an in...

After tying the knot 74 years ago, this couple claim they haven't had an argument throughout their entire  marriage One of Britain's longest married couples have been wed for over seven decades - without ever having a row.  Ernie and Renie Hills, from Devon, have survived a World War, a bout of tropical thrombosis and even a stint in an iron lung during their incredible 74 years of marriage.  Ernie, 97, an ex toolmaker and serviceman-come-milkman, and Renie 93, who worked in London's factories  during the Second World War, first met when she was pushing a bike near her home and a voice shouted over.  "Oi, would you like to hold me up like that?" Since then, the pair have been inseparable. "That was it, we were  together after that," explained Ernie. "And you know what? We've never argued since that day." The couple  believe the key to a long marriage was a clear understanding of each other and their needs. ...

You have to put her in the right mood so she can do the work. As a guy, you’re probably the one who initiates s*x in your relationship. It’s not that your girlfriend isn’t in the mood or doesn’t want as much s*x as you do— you’re just the one who rings the dinner bell 99.9 percent of the time. Why is that? “This comes from many things, but one of them is that women are afraid that if they step out of traditional gender roles, they won’t be seen, accepted, and appreciated as feminine being,” says psychologist and relationship expert Tracy Thomas, Ph.D. “It also becomes another area where she could potentially fail, and be rejected—and most women are terrified of being rejected.” But you can fix this, Thomas says, by creating an atmosphere in which she doesn’t feel like she needs to be perfect. “You want to get her in the mood—make her horny—but what does that mean?” Thomas says. “What you really want is to make her feel like it’s safe for her to let go, like she can...

I haven't been able to touch my girlfriend in 5 weeks after an episode with her left me traumatized. During our last lovemaking, as it's customary for us to do if we have much time to give each other pleasure, I like to kiss her down there a lot and give her great pleasure. I like to also lick her b***h**e. She really enjoys it but in our last encounter something went terrible wrong. My girl forgot (or is it deliberate? God forbid) to clean her butt after taking a sh**. So when I put my tongue there, I tasted something funny. When I checked it out with my hands, it was her sh**! I couldn't believe it. She apologized and went to wash up but I haven't been able to get over it. I doubt I'll ever be comfortable around a woman's a**hole again. I haven't been able to touch her since the experience. Are there other men who have experienced this? How did you get over it?

Wondering where to draw the line between Skin bleaching and skin lightening…Here is what as written on Dencia’s Whitenicious instagram page “When you think of skin bleaching,the first two pictures on the left come in mind.When you think of skin lightening,the four pictures should come in mind.Skin whitening, skin lightening, and skin bleaching refer to the practice of using chemical substances in an attempt to lighten skin tone or provide an even skin complexion by lessening the concentration of melanin. Several chemicals have been shown to be effective in skin whitening, while some have proven to be toxic or have questionable safety profiles, adding to the controversy surrounding their use and impacts on certain ethnic groups. And now read this “There is a growing market in skin lightening products that are toxin-free. However, they are more costly due to their expensive ingredients. Japan and the Pacific are big markets for high quality skin lightening products impo...

Here are five questions you should consider before you give up on your marriage. 1. Is it possible that you are struggling with a personal issue that needs attention? Sometimes we are full of anger and resentment  and it starts to damage our marriage, except we aren’t honest with ourselves about one critical thing. All that anger and resentment is not about our spouse. Maybe it’s from a previous relationship, maybe we have mommy or daddy issues, or maybe we are just mad at ourselves. Ask yourself if you are letting your marriage fall apart because you have some serious personal issues that you haven’t been able to seek the right help for yet. 2. Have you given couples therapy a fair shot? Many times, couples go to one crappy therapist for 2-3 sessions and then call it quits. There are a lot of great therapists out there, but there are also a lot of crappy ones. Have you given the idea of getting help a fair shot? Have you tried working with different people? Have you...

Africa’s Most Successful Women introduces you to the most outstanding African women who are making giant strides in business, politics, technology, entrepreneurship and leadership on the continent and elsewhere around the world. Article below written by Mfonobong Nsehe for Forbes. Mo Abudu, a 50 year-old Nigerian media entrepreneur and talk show host, is the founder of Ebony Life TV, a fast-growing black African multi-broadcast entertainment network, which showcases informative and entertaining programmes that portray Africa at its best. Abudu, who has been described by international news outlets as ‘Africa’s Africa’, is keen in her resolve to rewrite Africa’s story. And it’s time you took notice. In a recent email interview, she recounts her entrepreneurial journey and reflects on the lessons she has learned along the way. You are the host of ‘Moments with Mo’, one of the most successful syndicated talk shows on African regional television. And now you run an Africa...

It feels so exciting when you fall in love and start a new relationship! New relationships are about hope, some expectations and fresh feelings. But sometimes a new relationship collapses when they hardly starts.

There are times when women really wish that their husbands could understand what is going on in their minds. Agreed, understanding women is not easy, but putting an effort to know them is always appreciated. Women love it when men understand them. So, read on to know what every woman wishes her man knew about her.